Posing Questions and Receiving Answers

I had lunch the other day with a few lady friends of mine.  
One of them had a concern and posed this to the group:
"How do I get an answer to my question?"

We all ended up agreeing that the best plan of action, was to first, sit with the question.  

Second, was to ask Spirit for an answer.  
How are you going to get an answer if you don't ask?!  

And finally, we agreed that it was important to trust the answer when it was presented and affirmed.